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I Will Survive

A space for reflection, resilience, and real life

I’m a three-time cancer survivor, currently living with multiple myeloma. But this blog isn’t just about cancer.

It’s about what I’m learning along the way – about leadership, faith, relationships, and what it means to keep showing up when life doesn’t go as planned. Some posts are personal. Some are practical. All are real.

These are my most recent reflections.


  • SOME FAMILY TRADITIONS BEGIN IN THE STRANGEST WAYS

    When our son Shayne was about five years old, he developed a rather unusual interest. He loved going to funerals. Nagib and I were slightly puzzled.What five-year-old wants to go to funerals? But, being his parents, we naturally came up with the most flattering explanation possible. Perhaps he was deeply…

  • The Four-Letter Word That Can Save a Relationship

    The Four-Letter Word That Can Save a Relationship

    We’ve all been there. Your partner says something that feels unfair. A colleague challenges your point of view. Someone gives you feedback you don’t particularly want to hear. And while they are still talking, you are no longer listening. You are preparing your defence.Gathering your evidence.Calling your imaginary witnesses.Basically building…

  • Don’t Let Tomorrow Steal Today

    Lately, I’ve been carrying something heavy. Several people I care deeply about in the myeloma and cancer community have experienced significant setbacks in their health. Over the years, these relationships have become much more than shared diagnoses and treatment plans. We’ve celebrated good news together. We’ve worried together. We’ve learned…

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